As a rule, I do not go to a theater to see a sports movie. Still have not seen Glory Road or We Are Marshall and I’m sure I did not see Remember the Titans until it was sitting on the shelf at Blockbuster. So, even though I thought the new Sandra Bullock film, The Blind Side, looked promising I was willing to wait. Thankfully, my daughter, aged 13 and no fan of football, was not. (Though when it opened with some drone and the unknowns really screwing up a cover of Nick Drake’s, “The Cello Song,” I got antsy.) Having opened November 20, The Blind Side has already grossed nearly $150M in telling the story of Baltimore Ravens left tackle, Michael Oher (pronounced “oar,” Quinton Aaron), a former homeless high school kid from the projects of Memphis, who is brought into a family of a rich white people, the Tuohys (pronounced, “Two-ee”) and given a home. If that were the extent of this movie, then it would have easily and inevitably veered off into a sappy, Hallmark Channel vehicle, capturing only the attention of some bored kids on Saturday afternoon. But this is not a movie about white guilt or Republican racial angst. In the end, it’s a movie about the gospel. The movie begins with a dozen or so replays of the Monday Night Football Lawrence Taylor hit on Joe Theismann that shattered the leg of and ended the career of the latter. This wince inducing video (I did not watch the replays then and I do not watch them now) is necessary to explain why Oher’s eventual football position, left tackle on the offensive line, is so important: it protects the quarterback’s blind side. Thus, the movie reasons, since the quarterback is generally the highest payed player on the team, the left tackle is the second most important player on the team. We are quickly introduced to “Big Mike” as a hulking, but gentle presence whose worldly belongings are a light blue golf shirt, a pair of shorts and some old high top sneakers. His other shirt is kept in a grocery bag. He “borrows” dryer time at a local laundromat after washing his shirt in the sink for free. In another scene Big Mike is seen picking up leftover popcorn after the school volleyball game. He’s been away from his crack addicted mother since he cannot remember how old and ran away from every foster home he had ever called home. His case worker calls him “a runner.” The only person in the Tuohy family who knows anything about Big Mike is the pre-teen son, SJ (played with regular hilarity by Jae Head), but on their way home one cold, rainy night the family happens upon Oher walking down the road on his way to the school gym, planning to stay the night because “it’s warm there,” and, after a brief road-side interview, Leigh Anne Tuohy (Bullock) decides to bring him home for the night. This decision, while generous, is not portrayed as necessarily righteous. She puts some sheets and blankets on the couch for their guest, then heads downstairs in the morning with some expectation that, like an inner city Jean Valjean, Oher had stolen away carrying the silverware in his grocery bag. Interestingly, nearly the entire first half of the movie is devoted to telling the story of the relationship between the Tuohy’s and Oher: Thanksgiving dinner shared around the table instead of in front of the TV, being the only black kid in an all white Christian school (“the fly in the milk” as he is called at one point) while dealing with both his social and learning struggles. When the football portion of the movie comes to the fore, it does so well-the relationship story is not jettisoned for a bunch of hitting and grunting. On the contrary it works to strengthen it. (I will say that many of the real life coaches, Nick Saban especially, are woefully stiff on camera making Mark Richt’s turn in Facing the Giants seem downright Oscar worthy.) It’s as Leigh Anne is drawn into Michael’s life, trying to peel back the layers of the onion that the movie becomes a picture of the gospel. She’s simply unwilling to be a bystander on the edge of his life. She drives him to the projects where he grew up in a vain attempt to find his mother, then endeavors to find her without him at another time. The end of that encounter says more without words than many scenes say with pages of dialogue. Instead of cutting to another scene when it would be easy, the director stays with it allowing it to reach a poignant climax. The ministry of the gospel is so real in this movie that it does not depend on it being preached. It truly is an effort at Assisi’s, “Preach the gospel at all times and, when necessary, use words.” This is not a story specifically aimed at the death, burial and resurrection of Christ, but whether the results of those momentous events can be lived out and how. In those words of Jesus that we love to proclaim, yet are usually loath to live, “For I was hungry and you gave Me food; I was thirsty and you gave Me drink; I was a stranger and you took me in; I was naked and you clothed me” (Matthew 25:35, 36). When we exited the theater, Abigail and I were discussing the movie itself, that this is what a “Christian movie” should be, people in all their flaws. This is not the silly, shallow “the wind stops blowing so my kid can make a field goal” type of spirituality of Facing the Giants where “God’s in control” and everything works out in the end. While Oher is rescued and makes the NFL in real life (a fact saved almost until the credits), that revelation is preceded immediately by vivid reminders that many
Drawing held in nook giveaway
A winner has been selected in “The Great 2009 nook E-reader Giveaway.” Michael Nolen of Tracy, CA, who has responded and is the official winner! Barnes & Noble has contacted me via e-mail stating the nook will be shipped today and should be to me by Monday or Tuesday. Mike, you will get it soon thereafter. Thank you, everyone, for playing. There will be minor giveaways at martyduren.com regularly and major ones, like this one, as often as management can afford them. In the meantime, don’t forget to shop here for Christmas!
martyduren.com site update and news
Thanks to everyone who has stopped by martyduren.com. Yesterday marked the 1st month since the official launch and I’m grateful! According to Google analytics I’ve had 1,966 visits with more than 4,200 page views (hits) since I went live a month ago. The nook giveaway is winding down (tomorrow at 11:59 pm marks the deadline) with several hundred individual entries and counting. If you haven’t registered yet, please see the giveaway contest widget to the right. I received the following email from Barnes & Noble this week: This is to confirm that your nook will be shipping this week. Although your shipment has been slightly delayed, we’ve upgraded you to overnight shipping to ensure you’ll receive your nook by December 16. I’m pretty sure this means that the winner will receive the prize nook by Christmas (but still, don’t count your chickens and all that). The picture on this post is an actual nook from the Barnes & Noble store at the Mall of Georgia taken Tuesday. It feels really cool, feels solid. It is thin, incredibly thin. I didn’t get much of a chance to play with it, but it is very readable and I can’t wait to get one myself at some point. Of course, Christmas time’s a comin’… I’d also like to let you know that I’ve added three stores on the site and a lot of information on my “About” page. All of these are found just above the main content on the same bar with “Subscribe.” The Mall is being geared toward things that are typically of interest to men, The FeMall is being geared toward ladies and the Social Store will feature companies who are trying to make a positive impact in people’s lives. I currently feature Tom’s Shoes, but hope to be adding other soon. Why monetize? If you’ve been to other sites I’ve done before (sbcoutpost.com, iemissional.com), then you will recognize a specific change here: advertising. That’s because I’m trying to make some money, so, shop some! In all seriousness, the stores represented here, including Amazon.com, pay me commissions (sometimes called referral fees) for promoting them. Anything you purchase from a link here costs you exactly the same as if you were to go to their site directly, yet puts a little money in my pocket. So, when you are going to purchase from Amazon.com, just start here. You can use any of the search areas to find anything carried there; searching Amazon.com here works just like searching the main site. Thanks for the 12 orders that have already been placed through my affiliates at martyduren.com! The other links take you directly to the advertised site, many of which currently feature Christmas deals, especially free shipping, so take advantage. I hope to open the Outdoor Store soon, with links to REI, Sierra Trading Post and others. I’ll let you know when that happens. Thanks so much for your help in this time of job transition for me. You may not think it’s much, but every little bit helps. Thanks. Big Announcement Sometime in January be looking for a multi-part interview with Douglas Blackmon, whose book, Slavery by Another Name, won the 2009 Pulitzer Prize for General Nonfiction. Also, be looking forward to another new website launch in the next couple of days. This one will be dealing with issues regarding business management.
100 years of Lesslie Newbigin
Christianity Today has a great article about the late Lesslie Newbigin, former bishop and missionary to India (Church of Scotland). If you are a Christian concerned about how the gospel can and should impact culture, consider reading this. Two of Newbigin’s books are linked below.
‘Men of a Certain Age,’ by a man of a certain age
Tonight, Men of a Certain Age, the highly promoted new series on TNT, premieres at 10:00 EDT. As a man of a certain age, 46 for exactitude, I have been interested in this show since seeing the first preview several months ago. The main characters (Scott Bakula, Andre Braugher and Ray Romano) are men facing the middle of life with dreams unfulfilled, lingering questions about success and problematic relationships. It’s the stuff with which every man deals in some form if he is honest with himself and with those around him. In an interview published in the December 4-6, 2009, USA Weekend paper, Braugher (Homicide Life on the Street), Bakula (Quantum Leap) and Romano (Everybody Loves Raymond), who is also the show’s co-creator and executive producer, fielded questions about romance, dating and life. Though Bakula is a “player” on the show, all of the actors are married-Romano for 22 years, Braugher for 18 and Bakula for 13 (second marriage). Men deals with the nuances of the dating process, but Romano admits, “I haven’t been on a date with a new woman in 22 years because I’ve been married all that time. If I had to do it now, I’d be terrified.” Bakula adds, “It’s hard to imagine yourself out there, attempting to date. It’s really frightening.” Many men would think if the Hollywood A-listers are scared to face the possibility, then the average guy who finds himself unexpectedly entering that particular venue again should not feel so bad about their fears. The TNT website mentions that Braugher’s character, Owen, is married with three kids, who is dealing with health issues and an overbearing father, for whom he works at a car dealership. Terry, played by Bakula, is “the perpetual bachelor of the group…an actor whose laid-back approach to life and love are half-envied, half-mocked by his two best friends, Joe and Owen,” while Joe (Romano) is working in a party store rather than playing golf, as was his dream, and is separated from his wife, though unwilling “to give up on his marriage, even though his wife has no such qualms.” In other words, pick out any three guys, put them in a booth at Waffle House and roll the camera. That some men struggle mightily throughout their 40’s and 50’s to make sense of dreams gone south, marriages gone dull, kids gone wild and careers gone completely is a given. It probably happens to many more than will admit it, but it happens. I hope that this show gives a realistic picture of such situations without devolving into endless talk about sex; the show is rated TV-MA for language. In the aforementioned interview, Romano revealed that he has already filmed a “semi-nude” scene for the show, which sounds like a great place for a bathroom break to me; maybe TNT will put a warning on the screen. Hoping against hope, perhaps Romano will bring spiritual content into the programming. Braugher’s breakthrough role as the lapsed Catholic Baltimore Detective Frank Pembleton in Homicide: Life on the Street featured regular conversations about issues of good and evil, God and Satan, fate and sovereignty. Though not always coming down correctly, both sides were generally given an accurate hearing. One would hope that serious spiritual discussion would become a recurring theme in Men since these things are important to men of every age.
Month-by-month display of United States unemployment rates
Latoya Egwuekwe at American Observer has put together a sobering visual charting the digression of unemployment in the U.S. from January 2007 through October 2009. It’s called, The Decline: The Geography of a Recession and is worth your 30-second look. Good thing we’re coming out of this, huh?
Thoughts on President Obama’s Afghan war speech
Last evening President Barack Obama addressed the nation from West Point (His speech can be seen on C-Span). The focus of the last night’s speech by President Barack Obama was a troop surge of an additional 30,000 men and women into Afghanistan until troop withdrawal from Afghanistan begins in 18 months. The president did a very good job in a brief review of why we went into Afghanistan to begin with and a good job of communicating what he, as commander-in-chief, wants to see accomplished by the placement of $30B worth of additional military power in this year alone. Three objectives: 1. Deny Al-Qaeda a safe haven. 2. Reverse the Taliban’s momentum and deny it the ability to overthrow the government. 3. Strengthen Afghan security forces and government. Three strategic elements: 1. Pursue a military strategy that will break the Taliban’s momentum and increase Afghan capacity over the next 18 months. 2. Work with our partners and the United Nations to pursue a more effective civilian strategy. 3. Act with full recognition that success in Afghanistan depends on our partnership with Pakistan. President Obama responded to three counter arguments he’s already heard: 1. Afghanistan is another Vietnam. He gave three reasons why this is not like ‘Nam, including the fact that Al-Qaeda attacked us from Afghanistan. 2. We cannot leave Afghanistan in it’s current state, but keep only the troops we have. He objects that this would leave us in our current muddled condition. 3. Should not propose our time frame, some calling for an open ended campaign. The president states that we cannot afford a 10-year nation building program. The president has already taken flack (see FOX News analysts) from not giving specifics as to how these things are going to happen. Frankly, I thought that’s why we have generals on the ground. They have the responsibility to work out the details. 99.9% of Americans are not military strategists and 100% of news anchors are not, therefore, spelling out of such details would not really help me know whether or not such information would help us reach his announced objectives. If the president had given 20 minutes worth of details he would have been derided for making the same mistakes made in Vietnam, to wit, letting politicians fighting the war instead of the military. Whether or not President Obama has the clout or backbone to see it through will remain to be seen. Nearly a year into his administration, he has famously (as lampooned by Saturday Night Live) not closed Guantanamo though he repeated in this speech his intention to do so, while neglecting many other promises of his campaign (where he stands arm in arm with virtually every other holder of our nation’s top office). Personally, I’m thankful that he has not committed us to a war we cannot afford; heck, we cannot even afford the wars we have. I wonder if Dave Ramsey has been consulted on this… I was at least glad to hear a reference to the average American making sacrifices, though I fear it is far to little and far to late. World War 2 saw community metal drives, rubber collections, etc, to provide raw materials for the war effort. War bonds were sold for financing the expense. People shut off their electric lights at night for the dual purpose of obscuring potential targets and saving the power. When the War on Terror started, we were famously encouraged to “Go shopping” as if Al-Qaeda would be defeated by the collective re-shoeing of American school kids and a new theater system in every home. That was and remains balderdash. Being vigilant is a must without question and protection of the citizenry is a God given responsibility of any government. We have reached the point, however, where our economics must catch up to our ability to wage war afar while we fortify protection at home, lest we lose our capacity to do either. A few specific quotes from last night: “As president, I refuse to set goals which go beyond our responsibilities, our means or our interests.” “We cannot simply afford to ignore the price of these wars.” “Our prosperity provides a foundation for our power.” “The nation that I’m most interested in building is our own.” “America will have to show our strength in the way that we end wars and conflict…and we can’t count on military might alone.” “We have forged a new interest with those in the Muslim world.” “We must draw on the strength of our values…We must promote our values by living them at home.” “As a country, we are not as young, and perhaps not as innocent, as we were when Roosevelt was president.”
On Gettysburg, war and peace
The day after Thanksgiving, I was able to visit the Civil War battlefields at Gettysburg, PA. After watching a short movie about the war in general and the Battle of Gettysburg in particular, we went through the museum. To say that I was overwhelmed with information would be exercising the gift of understatement to its limit as display after display had quotations from period sources and historical players, uniforms, firearms, books and photos of farms and soldiers, crude but effective medical instruments and movies from the History channel. One rather significant item on display was a booklet entitled “Slavery Ordained Of God,” by Rev. Fred A. Ross of Huntsville, AL, demonstrating how some southern Christians defended the institution that brought wealth to both the North and the South. We spent half an hour or so in the National Cemetery that pre-dated the war by several years and was the location of Abraham Lincoln’s Gettysburg Address, November 19, 1863. This was the cemetery referenced in Cemetery Ridge and Cemetery Hill where Union forces fell back under duress on July 1, 1863, the first day of the Battle of Gettysburg, ultimately forming the upper curve of the fishhook shaped line that ran south to Big Round Top. It was this line that was unable to be breached by Robert E. Lee’s Army of Northern Virginia, leading to heavy losses and injuries on both sides, but the retreat of the Confederates on July 3. So fierce was the fighting that more than 4,000 were killed in one skirmish in “The Wheatfield,” (seen distantly in the photo above) while more than 5,000 Confederate soldiers were killed in a single hour during a maneuver famously known as “Pickett’s Charge,” an advance nearly a mile wide with soldiers. The three day battle, considered by most to be the turning point of the war, saw killed and wounded on both sides total more than 51,000 men and a few women. Since the Civil War the United States has been involved in numerous conflicts worldwide and not a few wars. The century alone has saw World Wars 1 and 2, Korea, Vietnam, The Gulf War and this century joins with the ongoing War on Terror. (For the purposes of this writing, I’ll not include the War on the Unborn, which has claimed hundreds of millions of lives worldwide since its inception.) While Augustine argued that some war can be just (righteous), Confederate General Thomas “Stonewall” Jackson called it, “The sum of all evils.” Augustine may be theologically and philosophically right, but the problem is that wars are not fought only theoretically and philosophically, but in reality and because they are fought in reality many times we find in them the sum of all evils. Those evils often take place with suicides among the troops, intentional killing of civilians, rape of the defenseless and death by friendly fire. They also take the form of government cover ups to boost enthusiasm for the conflict for political means and ends. Perhaps this is the worst evil of all. Who can forget the much publicized, though personally shunned, entrance into the Army Rangers program of Arizona Cardinals’ safety, Pat Tillman, in May 2002? Portrayed as a real American, an example of sacrifice and patriotism, Tillman refused all interviews or preferential treatment, even when he had an “Army excuse” for early discharge before the tour that eventually took his life. His entry and his death were used, against his wishes, by the Bush administration to bolster American support for the war, posits Jon Krakauer in Where Men Win Glory. Tillman’s death was due to friendly fire following a Keystone Kops episode of bad command decisions. The cause of death was hidden for months from his family, the press and the world so it could be used for political expedience. Former White House press secretary under Bush, Scott McClellan hypothesizes in his book, What Happened?, that the “permanent campaign” of politics makes it impossible for any aspect of decision making to happen without an eye to the polls and political ramifications and this includes, or, perhaps especially includes, war. Since even a theoretically possible “just war” is often led and fought by unjust men, it would behoove Christians to be careful not to support a war simply because a liked president is “Commander-In-Chief,” or to oppose it simply because an otherwise disliked president is stopping the buck. Some Christians tend to make support for the war a test of fellowship or something as if lack of enthusiasm for an earthly military action is akin to renouncing one’s heavenly citizenship. Most seem oblivious to the fact that patriotism is a commitment to the constitution, not the ever-so-often selected first-chair occupants of 1600 Pennsylvania Ave or that our commitment to the kingdom of God supersedes both. While it is certainly a truth that Scripture gives governments the right to wage war in certain circumstances, Scripture also records that followers of Christ are to be wagers of peace above war. I don’t think this leads inevitably to pacifism, but it cannot mean less than our striving to seek peace from the playground to the boardroom to the battlefield. I think it was George Washington who said, “Sometimes you have to have war before you can have peace,” but Lee reminded, “What a cruel thing is war; to separate and destroy families and friends, and mar the purest joys and happiness God has granted us in this world; to fill our hearts with hatred instead of love for our neighbors, and to devastate the fair face of this beautiful world!”
Congrats to Jordan Hortman, winner of WIRED subscription
Congratulations to Jordan Hortman of Locust Grove, GA, winner of the martyduren.com WIRED magazine subscription giveaway. Thanks to all who participated, especially James Taylor in the U.K. No sign of Carly Simon yet…